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Monday, 27 February 2012

Femdom means no more bad sex ever, and more intimacy...

Just a quick thought.

In the real world... well, the real world often saps the energy couples have for each other. Sometimes intimacy would be nice, but one or both of you are too stressed to engage properly. Work being what it is, she's often too tired to be much fun. Or perhaps she's in the wrong part of her cycle and a bit dry and grumpy.

We men can always scrape up enough energy for sexual activity, and our enthusiasm can be contagious :)

Unfortunately, the results are often disappointing. Foreplay goes fine, but she dries up and penetration is out. Or, cunnilingus gets her off, but the then falls asleep. Perhaps you get to sex, but it's rather mechanical and really only to finish you off.... she's dozing off as you come.

That's bad sex.

Much better than bad sex!
Sometimes life is such that you have a grim choice between bad sex, or no sex.

 Both damage intimacy in their own way. Neither is very satisfying the next day.

Now, rewind and replay these scenarios between mistress and slave....

Much better.

She gets off and falls asleep... delicious!

She's grumpy and lashes out... awesome!

She closes in on herself and just enjoys what you can do for her... how wonderfully demeaning!

Better yet,  Femdom is intimate - if looked at from the right angle - and certainly more intimate than bad sex.

So, if she knows she can always ask for her slave rather than have bad sex, you end up with more rather than less total intimacy in the relationship...

Better yet, you get to really serve.

To see how this all hangs together, take a look at my Femdom how-to guide for male subs with vanilla partners. Or, if you are a female reader with a submissive partner, try my Femdom guide of vanilla women.

2 comments:

  1. I can attest to this. Most of the time, I get more, not less sex, and my orgasms tend to be more explosive and satisfying.

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    1. I think that's the other thing. If there's regular erotic activity going on, then it has to be good for vanilla sex as well.

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