|I am approaching the end of seven days of chastity.|
Denial and Chastity, last time versus this timeHere's how it went last time, when we took our Femdom sabbatical over 2 weeks with an interruption in the middle:
- 9 days of denial
- 9 nights total in chastity
- max 5 consecutive nights in chastity
- approx 170 total hours of chastity
- Maximum 115 consecutive hours of chastity
This time we've had only a one week window, however I prepped by denying myself (or was she denying me?) for two weeks.
As of Saturday unlocking, the score will be:
- 21 days of denial
- 6 nights total in chastity
- 6 consecutive nights in chastity
- Approx 132 hours of chastity
- Maximum 132 consecutive hours of chastity
Which was better?
|Rubbing Xena's feet last |
night actually made me leak!
I'm floating on waves of lust! Rubbing Xena's feet last night actually made me leak! (Bear in mind we've been married two decades - there's nothing mysterious about her feet, though they are very sexy.)
What's made the difference is the denial, roughly two and a third longer than I've gone without an orgasm since.... adolescence? It was absolutely well worth the suffering in order to enjoy the... er suffering.
Sleeping in chastity when denied for a long periodLast time, frankly, I didn't deny myself in the lead in because I wasn't sure I could handle nine days of denial with the chastity belt! It wasn't wimpishness on my part. I was worried I wouldn't be able to sleep!
However, the denial didn't make much difference. I think you either have the trick for going to sleep when horny, or you don't. Perhaps a long period of device free chastity teaches you the knack. It's also possible that after a certain point, you become more "leaky" so that actually you get a little relief.
Chastity Cage SecurityUnless you are pierced, no cage is 100% secure. You can always pull out the back. Somehow, however, this isn't in the lexicon for chaste males.
In my case, the pubic hair anti-pullout fix adds an extra layer of mental security and seems to work fine; I'll know when I unlock
Comfort and chafing in my Chinese chastity device
|I started getting chafing round about |
the five-day mark.
The bruising didn't happen this time - I'd been wearing the device most days daytime, so my body got used to it.
The chafing happened again this time and at the same day. However, I was quicker of the mark with the Sudocreme which seems to have fixed the problem... though I guess I'll find out when I inspect next time.
What's interesting is that last time, I did a three day stint, had a two day break, then did another five days. That three day stint seems to have made no difference to chafing.
|...the Mature Metal device I would |
like to own.
Though mostly my device is fine - I even threw away my old DIY chastity belt - there are one or two flaws compared with the Mature Metal device I would like to own.
Cage Design: MM has extra bars that make it harder to stimulate the underside of the head. (It wasn't just self control that stopped me doing this, though. I don't fancy the resulting bruising if I do get off.)
A-ring (the first ring next to the body): MM has an oval A-ring with a rounded cross section. Much less chafing, more comfort.
Locking post: MM's locking post sticks forward so doesn't interfere with the body. The Chinese device's post sticks in every time I bend over. (The workaround is to lace the bolt through a strip of neoprene.)
Workmanship/Finish: I was lucky with my Chinese device. Even so, it has great piles of solder around the joints. MM's one is simply better.
Mental Experience of Chastity
|she is certainly amused at my|
This time, she seems to be enjoying her control over me, and she is certainly amused at my plight.
That makes a huge difference, since any suffering on my part now feels like submission, rather than just erotic adventure.
Conclusions: Tips for a chastity marathon
- As before, iron out all issues with your chastity device well ahead of time. Consider buying a Mature Metal device, or equivalent.
- Deny yourself in the lead up. This will make the chastity marathon itself more a intense experience, and also get you into the habit of sleeping when horny.
- Wear the device frequently during the lead up. Snag any if the issues, get your body used to it.
- Consider taking a break in the middle. A short break will give your body time to recover. (No need to break the denial, though!)
- Sudocreme. Really.
- Find the real benefit to your partner. It doesn't have to be kinky, it could just be they enjoy a break from penetration, or think the whole thing is a giggle.
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