|Femdom works miracles if you treat |
it as real.
(Well actually, I think it is real as soon as it becomes about what she wants. BDSM has a culture of pretending it's a game, forgetting that some games, like soccer, are real.)
Xena rations and controls my orgasms. She also gives me demerits resulting in strokes of the whip - it's all in our Female Led Relationship Contract.
All this excites me, but the frustration is sometimes unbearable and the whipping is always painful enough to make me want to avoid it. So the discipline may be kinky, but it's real.
Also in our FLR contract is the following clause:
He will report any measurable professional or personal targets Xena might want to manage.I'm overweight (much less overweight now than I was, but we'll get to that). I've tried various diet and exercise regimes, but the one that works is really simple:
Of course, Xena can lower my weight
ceiling at any time...
- I weigh myself daily and record the result. Missing a weigh-in or increasing weight earns me a demerit.
- Going over a ceiling set by Xena costs me a penalty day, meaning my weekly orgasm is put back.
- Missing a monthly target also set by Xena results in dire punishment.
Doing this, I steadily lost one kilogramme a month through most of last year. Over Christmas, I managed to put on a kilogramme and a half.