tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post6923655402620759276..comments2024-01-22T20:11:57.757+00:00Comments on How do I get my wife to dominate me?: Adventures in Chastity: What keeps us locked and chaste against our will and why?Giles Englishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-15437160422839204022017-09-04T19:22:03.985+01:002017-09-04T19:22:03.985+01:00I think the key thing is that we have multiple tra...I think the key thing is that we have multiple tracks. There is no summation...Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-9270424080134573642017-09-04T17:37:33.032+01:002017-09-04T17:37:33.032+01:00Blimey Giles. I click on a link you post, thinking...Blimey Giles. I click on a link you post, thinking there might be a paragraph or two... <br />After a while these debates tend to become very circular and semantic. <br />I have to admit I flagged... but I did make it to the end of your own post, basically I think a lot of these psychological spaces are about exploration. The 'subspace' as it's known is exploratory - like being a deep sea diver at the bottom of a dark, uncharted sea. The fact that it's not all neatly & predictably organised is part of the point. <br /><br />A kind of brinkmanship; 'am I enjoying this? I dunno! Yes... and no. Maybe I'm enjoying not being sure!' <br />Exploring to see how far is too far... and of course, to use your phrase from a few weeks back, 'Masoch's Paradox'. That kernal of contradiction. The state of enjoying the act of not enjoying! <br /><br />Mr. Bump Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com