tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post7819433105386016392..comments2024-01-22T20:11:57.757+00:00Comments on How do I get my wife to dominate me?: Where did our chastity fetish come from? Where's it going? Male Chastity Devices before the 21st century and in the futureGiles Englishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-16821063931076323152019-07-01T13:47:27.109+01:002019-07-01T13:47:27.109+01:00Thank you so much for sharing this with me! You ar...Thank you so much for sharing this with me! You are, of course, very much not alone.<br />I think it's a shame you don't feel comfortable telling your wife about your fantasy. You don't have to make a fuss about it, just suggest it as a bedroom spice. Life is short!Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-38159122569795997722019-07-01T13:11:38.923+01:002019-07-01T13:11:38.923+01:00I have often wondered where my chastity fetish com...I have often wondered where my chastity fetish comes from, and for me Alex Comfort’s book was part of what fuelled the fantasy for me. I also found that in a university library in the early 90s, and I had gone looking for it after seeing it referred to in Brian Easlea’s ‘Science and Sexual Oppression’ and Reay Tannahill’s ‘Sex in History’. Both of those had shown illustrations of Victorian anti-masturbation devices which I had found arousing. <br /><br />But the roots of my own fascination go back further. I have enjoyed playing with my cock for as long as I remember, and I recall times when I was very young being told by my father and my grandfather to “stop playing with yourself”. Later on, when I was about 11, my father walked in on me as I was feeling myself in the bath. He didn’t say anything at the time, but a few days later, when I dropped something that we were lifting together, he made a comment that “all that wanking in the bath” was making me weak. He would also occasionally make comments about teenage boys needing to wear boxing gloves in bed, and make knowing remarks about “what you get up to”.<br /><br />I sometimes wonder if attempts to discourage me from masturbating began earlier. My mother once told me that I had rubbed my penis between my thighs as a baby, and also told me that the family doctor was very keen to get me circumcised. I don’t remember that doctor, as he was an old man who retired in the early 1970s when I was still a toddler. I do occasionally wonder if he was the last of that generation of doctors who thought that masturbation was something that needed to be cured, and circumcision was the way to cure it. My brothers, younger than me, were not circumcised as we had a different doctor by the time they were born. <br /><br />And so I spent my teens masturbating frequently, and sometimes compulsively, and feeling desperately guilty about it. Discovering the invention of devices to cure it fascinated and aroused me in equal measure. <br /><br />My recurring fantasy over the years has been about being caught masturbating by my father and punished and caged for it, and being let out occasionally for ‘practice sessions’ in which I simulate sex with a sex toy, as my father tries to turn me from a boy who masturbates into a man who has sex. <br /><br />Over the years, I have tried making my own devices. I once fashioned a spiked penis ring (in imitation of the Victorian ones illustrated in those books) using part of a cardboard tube, some ribbon and some drawing pins. Tying that round my cock made me very hard, and the pain caused by the pins was both agonising and wonderful! I’ve had a lot of fun with jockstraps with hard cups, and enjoy the feeling of my cock being held securely inside the cup. <br /><br />Whilst the fantasy of being locked is one I have carried around for years, I only discovered that modern devices were available when stumbling across something on the internet about 10 years ago. Since then I have looked at images of such things regularly, but have only recently dared to buy one. I bought a cheap steel one. The first time I locked it on I was trembling with anticipation, and got such a thrill from looking in the mirror and seeing my cock locked up. However, I can’t wear it for long, as it is rather visible under clothes, and at night it wakes me up as the ring pulls at my balls each time I begin to get an erection. <br /><br />All of my experimentation with chastity so far has been has been on my own. Part of me would love to try a full belt, if only to know what that feels like. But I’m not prepared to spend that sort of money, and I couldn’t try that without my wife knowing about my kinky fantasy. I’m too nervous to raise the subject with her. But it’s been fascinating to read of your journey with this. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-61385694076531228192014-11-06T19:31:55.846+00:002014-11-06T19:31:55.846+00:00Basically Intelligent Chastity Devices - They'...Basically Intelligent Chastity Devices - They'll come, I think!Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-13911159872644543952014-11-06T17:30:07.357+00:002014-11-06T17:30:07.357+00:00If there is enough of a market, I can imagine many...If there is enough of a market, I can imagine many devious technological advances. Imagine an embedded vibrator set to go off every ten minutes and stop as soon as the cage senses the victim is trying to get hard. Or a cage that shocks the balls whenever the wearer is getting excited. Using Bluetooth a cage could tweet "I am having naughty thoughts" every time the wearer is having naughty thoughts. An internal timed lock could add time whenever the victim tries to get hard or subtract time when the user voluntarily shocks themselves though a smartphone app. The cage could even use Bluetooth to announce its presence to people within range using a certain smartphone app and allow them to play with the vibrator; a game where they could try and figure out who is trapped. An owner could give a wearer "house arrest" by having the cage shock the wearer if the device leaves the vicinity of a certain WiFi network. All sorts of online activities could be mandated though an app connected to a cage. If certain actions are not taken (such as looking at certain porn) the wearer will not get the code to prevent a 3am vibration session.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com