tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post316741438772907370..comments2024-01-22T20:11:57.757+00:00Comments on How do I get my wife to dominate me?: Ask Giles: Why are dommes often so hostile or dismissive of male subs?Giles Englishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-14373710750890640402016-11-03T14:52:59.877+00:002016-11-03T14:52:59.877+00:00That's the BDSM as "fair exchange" m...That's the BDSM as "fair exchange" model, which is fine. However, from a submissive point of view it's two people running a simulation for each other... This requires a longer explanation. Hmmm.Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-40703202669045114962016-11-03T14:24:58.491+00:002016-11-03T14:24:58.491+00:00My sense is that there are few truly submissive pe...My sense is that there are few truly submissive people of either sex, which is a good thing! Like the old joke, "the whore said she'd do ANYTHING for $20, I told her to wash my car."<br /><br />Subbies are in it for their own pleasure. Dommes should be in for their own pleasure as well. When they come together, they should care about each others' pleasure. For a subbie, that certainly includes not topping from the bottom during a scene, else it's actually not enjoyable for either party. For a Domme that includes figuring out ahead of time what turns the subbie's crank and giving them the experience they crave.juliesphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02856609580815309314noreply@blogger.com