tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post6386867916189570315..comments2024-01-22T20:11:57.757+00:00Comments on How do I get my wife to dominate me?: Why she won't admit to enjoying Femdom even if she doesGiles Englishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-91877409276815992862012-06-27T10:58:08.233+01:002012-06-27T10:58:08.233+01:00I think it's important to see sadism in contex...I think it's important to see sadism in context of rough sports and martial arts, e.g. how is spanking a person worse than shouldering them on the football field?Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-62237355178817906492012-06-26T19:07:38.824+01:002012-06-26T19:07:38.824+01:00I appreciate you putting this out there for the me...I appreciate you putting this out there for the men to read. It is something I struggle with..Nice people don't hurt, embarrass, humiliate, or be mean to the people they love. This is my constant struggle: I like the idea of spanking you..but what if I hurt you? Are you OK down there? Am I being too harsh? Will you still think of me as a nice girl?...all those thoughts constantly run through my head. We have also been taught not to become violent under any circumstances. So, is spanking violent? Is bondage violent? Is using mean language violent? I am a peace-loving person, and violence is abhorrent to me...yet....I would love to spank you.<br /><br />Being dominant is no picnic.MsNaydihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15991393424657367644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-45798558591399054282012-05-31T16:00:16.481+01:002012-05-31T16:00:16.481+01:00You can achieve a lot by shifting the kink into th...You can achieve a lot by shifting the kink into the default. For example, active denial might be hard for her. However, if you are locked into your cb and the key is elsewhere, then denial happens anyway and it's not her fault (tee hee).Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-44563641982267333332012-05-31T13:36:30.790+01:002012-05-31T13:36:30.790+01:00I definitely feel like my Domme feels guilty about...I definitely feel like my Domme feels guilty about enjoying sex. After ~20 years together, she still doesn't like talking about sex with me. Catholic guilt, I guess. I don't think she feels as guilty denying me orgasm anymore, but I do think she struggled with that at first. I don't think she "gets" how much I crave to be spanked, and she gets mad at me for "topping from the bottom" when I ask, saying she knows what I want. But she still doesn't spank me much at all.lovetosubmithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255078782896892207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1926558375998557812.post-30259519143479426162012-05-01T22:28:03.656+01:002012-05-01T22:28:03.656+01:00That idea of getting used to being a little but ev...That idea of getting used to being a little but evil was certainly something my wife struggled with…Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10035712496411424856noreply@blogger.com