- Fantasy Blinkers: Wrong-headed behaviour in which the sub is overly certain "this is how Femdom works". It covers everything from inappropriate use of protocol, e.g. addressing a new acquaintance as Goddess, through to sending unsolicited dick pics. The behaviour usually conveys a sense of a knowing wink and self-entitlement: I know the Secret Femdominate Handshake.
However I now have a 5th category suggested by what Marcia B calls Desire Smuggling: essentially all the dishonesty, duplicity, disingenuousness, self-victimisation and hidden agenda-ism displayed by subs who can't or won't ask for what they want.
I'm going to use my own term, associated with an existing strategy known as "stealth submission":
- Stealth Mode: Getting submissive kicks through deception while failing to own one's own sexuality. (Of this, more later.)
So, so far we have:
- Fantasy Blinkers
- Stealth Mode
Have I missed anything?
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