|The sinister "Saint"|
I've had one, one hour break near the start so I could do wearing/not wearing photos. Otherwise it's stayed on continuously, including for showers and running.
And, it looks like I'm stuck until this time next week, at least. Here's why:
Rewind to roughly a week ago...
"I'm really angry," blazes my wife Xena. "Ten days angry."
She is angry. I managed to scrape our car. This is a genuine punishment.
"What?" I blurt. Ten days means two more weeks, on top of the first two she settled on to review this new device.
This gets me hard but not erect - the device makes its presence felt. At the same time it really feels like too much time without an orgasm.
"Locked," she says firmly.
The locked part is new.
A few days previously, when I was making my nightly report I said, "No problems with the new device. It's so wearable it's sinister."
|Me being locked makes Xena more casually dominant.|
"How do you mean, sinister?" asked Xena.
"It's been a week and a half and it feels like I only just put it on," I said. "With other devices there was always a sense that it would have to be removed sooner or later because of chafing or skin problems. There was a natural limit. This one feels as of there'll never be a practical reason for removing it. Having limits is like standing on a cliff edge. That makes it sinister."
Xena just gives me the thumbs up.
I think it was Thumper who said something like "A 100 dollar piece of crap won't transform your relationship".
He was right of course. However, my experience is that, like other BDSM toys and tools, it will certainly amplify things that are already there.
In our case, Xena has always liked to control the sex in general and my sexuality in particular. The further into chastity we've gone, the more she wants that control, in part, I think, because it also intensifies our dynamic.
However, she's always worried about practical consequences - injury, getting caught, or me limiting my activities to accommodate our shared fetish.
She's also not interested in any kind of fuss around me. For example, she likes having me constrained, but isn't interested in doing the tying up. So, naturally for her, she finds it pleasing to sentence me to periods of chastity, but doesn't want to be any kind of keyholder, fielding requests for unlocking and taking responsibility again and again.
|Nothing changed. |
This new, sinister, male chastity device seem to have taken off those brakes. And, me being locked makes Xena more casually dominant, which creates a feedback loop.
So what can I say about the device itself?
It's so very sinister that there isn't much.
Yes, I'm aware of it from time to time, but it feels more like a matter-of-fact well-designed surgical appliance than a bondage toy.
Though I could pull out the back, I wouldn't want to cum that way. I know from previous experience that I'd end up stretching and chafing the skin of my dick such that I'd need a break from the device, which Xena would know about. Though I could cum without pulling out, I also know that the snug fit would make it literally a bruising experience that would probably have me up and down at night peeing, which Xena would notice. So though I am not minded to cheat, I am also aware that it would be a bad idea.
The round, narrow, base ring means I can close my legs and sleep on my side at night. Compared to a grippy collar ring, it's slightly more likely to slip if I overdo the lotion. However, the narrowness ensures everything lies naturally, meaning no issues of comfort or concealment.
The open cage with paper clip end means I'm so well ventilated I even managed to drip dry one night without a hair dryer. There's never any itching, and it's easy to inspect the skin to check everything is OK.
Compared to a tube design, the penis is much more exposed to stimulation. However, that accessibility means that it's easy to realign the head on those rare occasions when it has turtled or squirmed out of position. When I unzip to pee, I'm already properly aligned nine times out of ten.
The two downsides are (i) that the shape of the paperclip head is visible through thin underpants, if you look for it, and (ii) the paperclip can catch on the waistband of underpants if you remove them with too much gusto.
|Feels pretty sinister to me.|
My experience of the Custom Chastity Saint is quite different. Basically I put it on and wore it. I did sport, work meetings, the pub... all with total confidence.
Nothing changed. Everything changed.
Which feels pretty sinister to me.
(Custom Chastity haven't yet added the "Saint" to their regular shop. However, I'm sure it's coming soon, unlike me. If you want one sooner than that, it's worth emailing them.)
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