|Between Hard Limits and |
the edge of the Kinky
Comfort Zone lies the Abyss.
The Abyss is the place where you really don't want to go, but can do so without any long term emotional, relationship or physical ill effects.
For me, it's a place that needs to exist in order to make the other stuff scary. For example...
The chastity device I'm wearing is good for at least two weeks and probably practical for two months, two years and beyond.
That would be way too extreme for me, and yet I get a delicious thrill of fear from the mere technical possibility of really long term chastity.
When I set things up so Xena can chain me in an improvised cell, much like the hero of my Bi Femdom Wife series, I always have food and water for 24 hours.
I don't want her to leave me locked overnight.
I don't want her to leave
me locked overnight.
However, the fact that it's means I never know for sure whether I'm spending 2 hours or 24 hours in my cell.
And it's the same for Penalty Days and Demerits.
Usually my orgasm gets delayed for a mere couple of days. However, sometimes things go wrong - like now - and I end up having to wait weeks or months.
Sometimes Xena goes beyond the accrued punishment and I endure an unexpected painful experience. And sometimes the punishment has mounted up, and I can see that experience coming and do nothing about it.
|None of these are things |
I would volunteer for.
I wouldn't even consent to them if we were just topping and bottoming:
"Hey Giles! Suppose I beat you until you weep, lock you in your cell for 24 hours then keep you locked and chaste for a month?"
These are not really experiences I particularly enjoy. However, the fact that they are possible and happen from time to time turns me on horribly. The genuine fear makes my life an adventure.
And that's why I like having the Abyss there, lurking beyond my Comfort Zone.
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