Erotic domination is more moral than sport! (Or, "How to feel good about being a dom or dominatrix")

....your sub/bottom also gets off,
which makes erotic domination
more moral than sport!

One way of looking at it is that BDSM is an erotic sport.

Though sports have rules, they are emotionally real to the participants, cause real pain and real humiliation, and grant permission to do and feel things on the field (or in the court etc) that you would not in the "real world".

So just as you might get a real buzz out of beating a friend at - say squash - and yet that might have no bearing on anything outside the squash club, in BDSM you get off hurting and humiliating a lover, and that has no bearing out of bed.

The only difference is that your sub/bottom also gets off, which makes erotic domination more moral than sport!

Why not introduce some Female Centered Femdom to your relationship?