If you want to get your non-kinky wife or girlfriend to dominate you, then here's a good place to start:
- Your slavery is about her pleasure.
- The slavery is part-time but real.
- She doesn't need to be turned on at the same time as you.
- Her pleasure is an extension of what she already enjoys.
- Your pleasure is a byproduct of her pleasure.
- She gets something she couldn't and shouldn't get from a vanilla relationship.
- You never* say no if she asks for femdom.
*Unless you have a good practical reason.
To learn how to get this to work, take a look at
my Femdom manual.
A nice list. I talk to men online and try to meet them in person. It's annoying how many go on and on and on about how much they want to serve me... until I give them a chance. Then, they don't show up, or they give me lists of what they want and how I can do what they want for them... Men really don't seem to have a clue. No matter how much they say they want to serve a Domme, I just ignore all that and ask them to tell me something real about themselves instead. If they can talk to me about themselves (outside of BDSM) then I will eventually talk to them about Domming and subbing.
ReplyDeleteOh, hi Laura!
ReplyDeleteI think part of the problem is that Fetish is sticky - through fantasy and masturbation, submissive men wander a long way from their root urge. The kinks merely point to submission, but really it's submission that matters.