- Interact: Talking, playing, making love. Interacting with the people around her.
- Project: Bossing, managing, creating, expressing, discoursing, lecturing, playing music. Giving a blow job. Projecting herself on the people around her.
- Resonate: Listening, basking in adulation, watching, absorbing. Receiving cunnilingus. Resonating to the people around her.
- Ignore: Getting on with things in her own space. Masturbating. Ignoring the people around her.
These modes are really helpful in making sense of what kinky activities your vanilla partner might enjoy:
...especially if you look at energy levels:
I think the biggest issue is that the names are not intuitive enough, and thus hard to remember. My problem is that the names need to make equal sense in non sexual, vanilla sexual and kinky situations!
Possible schemes include:
Me Time Mode
None of these schemes are perfect! Suggestions welcome...
Why not introduce some Female Centered Femdom to your relationship?